Here it is...December 30, 2011. Time to make my New Year's Resolutions. Every year I make a New Years Resolution to lose weight, but not this year! This year my resolution is to eat healthy and get in shape....to become a healthier person!
I also am going to become a better organized person. That means I will be weeding out a lot of stuff I don't need at home. I have held on to some (okay, a lot) of my parent's things for sentimental reasons, so it will be hard for me to let some of them go, but I know it is what my mom would want. She was so organized!
My last resolution is to become better with my finances (a/k/a frugal).
2012 will be MY YEAR! So Happy New Year's to everyone! Hugs!!!!
Friday, December 30, 2011
Monday, December 26, 2011
Missing Mom and Dad
The night before Christmas Eve I had a dream about my mom and dad. I have had them often in the past....from 2006 to end of 2009 of mom, then of both of them, and it always makes me miss them more and more, especially around the holiday season.
While my dad lived with us the last year of his life, I found out things I never knew. One of those things was how they paid for Christmas when we were litte. When we lived in Maine all of us kids looked forward to apple picking season when we would all go up on the top of the hill (I think the name of it was Woodsman's Hill) and mom and dad would get on the ladders and pick apples and us kids got to pick up the good apples off the ground, that had fallen. We loved doing it. Little did we know that was how Mom and Dad made "Christmas money". If it was a good apple season, it was a good Christmas. If it was a bad apple season, well...not so good a Christmas. Funny thing is looking back I don't remember having a bad Christmas. I remember going to Winthrop/Greene Christmas Eve and coming home after dark looking at lights and heading to bed for Santa to come.
Even when we moved away from Maine we always had a good Christmas! I don't remember much about the presents but I remember making cookies with Mom and having the grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins come to visit. Then again, isn't that what Christmas is all about...spending time with family and friends and not the presents!!!!!
I hope that is what is instilled in my kids. I know Amanda is very sentimental and I hope Cole and Hannah will be when they get older.
Wishing everyone a great week! WHO DAT!!! GEAUX SAINTS!!!!
While my dad lived with us the last year of his life, I found out things I never knew. One of those things was how they paid for Christmas when we were litte. When we lived in Maine all of us kids looked forward to apple picking season when we would all go up on the top of the hill (I think the name of it was Woodsman's Hill) and mom and dad would get on the ladders and pick apples and us kids got to pick up the good apples off the ground, that had fallen. We loved doing it. Little did we know that was how Mom and Dad made "Christmas money". If it was a good apple season, it was a good Christmas. If it was a bad apple season, well...not so good a Christmas. Funny thing is looking back I don't remember having a bad Christmas. I remember going to Winthrop/Greene Christmas Eve and coming home after dark looking at lights and heading to bed for Santa to come.
Even when we moved away from Maine we always had a good Christmas! I don't remember much about the presents but I remember making cookies with Mom and having the grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins come to visit. Then again, isn't that what Christmas is all about...spending time with family and friends and not the presents!!!!!
I hope that is what is instilled in my kids. I know Amanda is very sentimental and I hope Cole and Hannah will be when they get older.
Wishing everyone a great week! WHO DAT!!! GEAUX SAINTS!!!!
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Blessed
As the celebration of the Bir th of Jesus approaches, I can't help but think of how blessed I am. Through the most difficult time in my life, God has brought be the best family and friends who have been there for me when I needed it most. What more could I ask for.
So, here is wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas! Treasure that special time of year with those closest to you!
Hugs to all!
So, here is wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas! Treasure that special time of year with those closest to you!
Hugs to all!
Monday, December 12, 2011
Happy Monday Everyone
I had a great weekend. Saturday I hosted a critiquing meeting for Beginning Experience and afterwards we went to dinner at Olive Garden. I love getting together with my BE family because we have such a good time catching up and cutting up.
Sunday was a lazy day. I looked at the sale ads and did some price comparison for the kids for Christmas and mapped out my plan to go Christmas shopping this weekend. I hate waiting this late but didn't have a choice this year. I am not stressing out about it.
Can't forget about the Saints game yesterday! Talk about nervous! I couldn't watch the last two minutes when the Titans were on our 5 yard line but the defense came through! WHO DAT! The officiating sucked and I don't care what you say, Jimmy Graham did make that touchdown!!!
Well, I hope everyone has a great week. Friday we are having our Christmas lunch at Arnaud's....YUM!
Sunday was a lazy day. I looked at the sale ads and did some price comparison for the kids for Christmas and mapped out my plan to go Christmas shopping this weekend. I hate waiting this late but didn't have a choice this year. I am not stressing out about it.
Can't forget about the Saints game yesterday! Talk about nervous! I couldn't watch the last two minutes when the Titans were on our 5 yard line but the defense came through! WHO DAT! The officiating sucked and I don't care what you say, Jimmy Graham did make that touchdown!!!
Well, I hope everyone has a great week. Friday we are having our Christmas lunch at Arnaud's....YUM!
Friday, December 9, 2011
Happily Moving On
I am constantly reminded of how much my life has changed for the better since my separation and divorce. I am a much happier person now and the anxiety is gone for the most part. I say "for the most part" because I do have to have contact with my ex for Cole and Hannah's sake, but I am moving on with my life. They are the most important part of my life (and always will be) and to make their life easier is my main goal. I may not have a big house or drive a fancy car, but I am happy and healthy and isn't that what is most important?
I will admit there are times when I think back to "what if" but something quickly happens to remind me of how great a life I have. I have wonderful and true friends, an amazing family and a great job. When I say an amazing family, it goes well beyond my brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins and my beautiful grandmothers, but also all of my brothers and sisters in Christ who have been there for me with emotional support when I needed it most!
I have so many wonderful things to be happy for this Christmas season. Thank you God, for your wondrous deeds and the blessings you have bestowed upon me.
I will admit there are times when I think back to "what if" but something quickly happens to remind me of how great a life I have. I have wonderful and true friends, an amazing family and a great job. When I say an amazing family, it goes well beyond my brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins and my beautiful grandmothers, but also all of my brothers and sisters in Christ who have been there for me with emotional support when I needed it most!
I have so many wonderful things to be happy for this Christmas season. Thank you God, for your wondrous deeds and the blessings you have bestowed upon me.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Christmas Spirit
I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving and Black Friday! Personally, I avoid going near any stores on Black Friday and will continue to do so after the news reports of guns and pepper spray this year.
The weather is finally getting cold and feeling like fall/winter (as much as it does in the Big Easy). I have put up my Christmas tree, and although the ornaments are a little crowded in places and there are spots with none, instead of moving them around I have decided to leave them the way they are. Cole and Hannah did a wonderful job and put every single one on the tree themselves.
This weekend we will be putting up the Christmas Village that was my mother's. Cole is so funny and sweet because he loves to help me put it up every year.
Have a great week everyone!!!! Remember to keep Christ in Christmas!
The weather is finally getting cold and feeling like fall/winter (as much as it does in the Big Easy). I have put up my Christmas tree, and although the ornaments are a little crowded in places and there are spots with none, instead of moving them around I have decided to leave them the way they are. Cole and Hannah did a wonderful job and put every single one on the tree themselves.
This weekend we will be putting up the Christmas Village that was my mother's. Cole is so funny and sweet because he loves to help me put it up every year.
Have a great week everyone!!!! Remember to keep Christ in Christmas!
Friday, November 18, 2011
It's Gonna Be a Good Weekend
It's finally Friday and I don't have to wear a splint!!!
It is going to be a beautiful weekend. Tomorrow the kids and I are going to begin putting up our Christmas decorations. Usually I wait until after Thanksgiving but since we won't be having dinner at my house and they will be with their dad next weekend, they have been bugging me about it.
I am all for taking each holiday by itself, but I really need to get some more containers in the attic so Hannah can have her own room finally. As soon as it is empty I will be getting her bedroom set from my ex-in-laws.
Have a great weekend everyone.
It is going to be a beautiful weekend. Tomorrow the kids and I are going to begin putting up our Christmas decorations. Usually I wait until after Thanksgiving but since we won't be having dinner at my house and they will be with their dad next weekend, they have been bugging me about it.
I am all for taking each holiday by itself, but I really need to get some more containers in the attic so Hannah can have her own room finally. As soon as it is empty I will be getting her bedroom set from my ex-in-laws.
Have a great weekend everyone.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Happy Birthday Mom
Today, my beautiful mother would have been 71 years young, but she is spending it with our Heavenly Father and all of those that have been called home. It doesn't seem like a little over 6 years since she's been gone and sometimes I still want to call her on the phone.
She was a wonderful role model and I wish I had appreciated her earlier than I did. She always put herself last, could balance a checkbook and budget to the penny. She gardened in the winter and sewed our clothes to save money. She loved it when she and my dad moved to Wisconsin because it reminded her so much of Maine.
She had a wonderful sense of humor and was friendly with everyone. Even her best friend, Lynn Simon said "she could make a best friend in a grocery line."
I love you and miss you Mom and thank you for the wonderful memories that will always be in my heart!
She was a wonderful role model and I wish I had appreciated her earlier than I did. She always put herself last, could balance a checkbook and budget to the penny. She gardened in the winter and sewed our clothes to save money. She loved it when she and my dad moved to Wisconsin because it reminded her so much of Maine.
She had a wonderful sense of humor and was friendly with everyone. Even her best friend, Lynn Simon said "she could make a best friend in a grocery line."
I love you and miss you Mom and thank you for the wonderful memories that will always be in my heart!
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Stitches Out!!!
I went to the dr. yesterday and got the stitches out and am now wearing a wrist brace/splint. I can type with two hands (not so easy with the splint) but no lifting anything more than a cup of coffee or soft drink with that hand. It is progressing but the tendons and muscles are tight so it will just take time.
From being laid up for 2 weeks my metabolism is low. I fell asleep during Hawaii Five-0 last night!!!! Going to go for a walk after CCD tonight.
Tomorrow is my baby girl's birthday. Hannah will be 6 so I also have to make cupcakes for her class tonight...so much to do, hopefully that walk helps!
Have a great Tuesday!
From being laid up for 2 weeks my metabolism is low. I fell asleep during Hawaii Five-0 last night!!!! Going to go for a walk after CCD tonight.
Tomorrow is my baby girl's birthday. Hannah will be 6 so I also have to make cupcakes for her class tonight...so much to do, hopefully that walk helps!
Have a great Tuesday!
Friday, November 4, 2011
Sick Kids
The main thing I hate about being divorced is not seeing my kids every day. Especially when they are sick.
Cole woke up Wednesday morning throwing up everywhere. After I brought Hannah to school I went to pick up some Gatorade and carpet cleaner. Poor Cole just wanted to lay down. He loooked terrible with the dark circles under his eyes. His dad came to pick him up around 10:30 and I went to work, which tore me up. Was I doing the right thing? My boss has been wonderful to me and I am already capacitated having to type one handed, so didn't want to rock the boat.
Yesterday after school I called to talk to both Cole and Hannah but Hannah was asleep. When I called around dinner time she was still sleeping. I knew something was wrong then. I called after my trip to the laundramat and Office Depot for her project supplies and she had woken up with fever, her dad gave her a cool bath and she went back to sleep. All I wanted to do was go over there and hold her.
She is currently at the dr. with my ex-MIL and tested positive for a bladder infection and they are awaiting results for kidney infection test. My poor baby. I love my kids so much!!
Cole woke up Wednesday morning throwing up everywhere. After I brought Hannah to school I went to pick up some Gatorade and carpet cleaner. Poor Cole just wanted to lay down. He loooked terrible with the dark circles under his eyes. His dad came to pick him up around 10:30 and I went to work, which tore me up. Was I doing the right thing? My boss has been wonderful to me and I am already capacitated having to type one handed, so didn't want to rock the boat.
Yesterday after school I called to talk to both Cole and Hannah but Hannah was asleep. When I called around dinner time she was still sleeping. I knew something was wrong then. I called after my trip to the laundramat and Office Depot for her project supplies and she had woken up with fever, her dad gave her a cool bath and she went back to sleep. All I wanted to do was go over there and hold her.
She is currently at the dr. with my ex-MIL and tested positive for a bladder infection and they are awaiting results for kidney infection test. My poor baby. I love my kids so much!!
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Not so groovy
As most of you probably know by now I am not as young as I think I am (or want to be...LOL), and I fell while skating with Hannah at a birthday party and broke my arm. I really wouldn't even call it skating....I had just put them on and was on my way to the floor....I was still on the carpet!!!!!! I have never felt such pain and I have had three kids with no epidurals!! (it worked with Cole, thank heavens because he had a huge head!)
Fortunately Hannah's BFF's mother is a nurse and two other nurses were there that helped to splint me to get me to the ER (one of the nurses drove me....thanks Christine). Hannah stayed with a friend of mine until Amanda could pick her up. Poor thing looked so scared.
Well, I broke both bones in my lower arm just above my wrist and one was displaced so they had to sedate me with propofol (yes, the Michael Jackson drug) to set my arm. I had surgery last Wednesday to have a metal plate and pins inserted. I went back to work yesterday but typing with one hand is frustrating. I go back on Monday to get my stitches out and a new splint or cast (Hannah wants pink).
I have the best friends and family who have come to my rescue!!! Amanda kept calling me the day after to check on me. Marsha came over to do my laundry. And all my sisters have been helping me, especially Lisa, my wonderful neighbor....I owe her a daiquiri!!!!
I have only seen the kids for a few hours since my "accident" since I couldn't drive and was on pain meds but I finally get them tonight and CAN'T WAIT. I really miss them. There is some irony about this that I can't talk about...lol.
Hannah's birthday is on the 9th so I am trying to figure out what we are going to do, but I can tell you...she won't be having a skating party!
Fortunately Hannah's BFF's mother is a nurse and two other nurses were there that helped to splint me to get me to the ER (one of the nurses drove me....thanks Christine). Hannah stayed with a friend of mine until Amanda could pick her up. Poor thing looked so scared.
Well, I broke both bones in my lower arm just above my wrist and one was displaced so they had to sedate me with propofol (yes, the Michael Jackson drug) to set my arm. I had surgery last Wednesday to have a metal plate and pins inserted. I went back to work yesterday but typing with one hand is frustrating. I go back on Monday to get my stitches out and a new splint or cast (Hannah wants pink).
I have the best friends and family who have come to my rescue!!! Amanda kept calling me the day after to check on me. Marsha came over to do my laundry. And all my sisters have been helping me, especially Lisa, my wonderful neighbor....I owe her a daiquiri!!!!
I have only seen the kids for a few hours since my "accident" since I couldn't drive and was on pain meds but I finally get them tonight and CAN'T WAIT. I really miss them. There is some irony about this that I can't talk about...lol.
Hannah's birthday is on the 9th so I am trying to figure out what we are going to do, but I can tell you...she won't be having a skating party!
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Beginning Experience Weekend
I think I am finally recovered from the Beginning Experience Weekend this past weekend.
I am so blessed to be able to be a part of this ministry, even if it is an exhausting 48 hour weekend. It is a very structured weekend, and as weekend coordinator I am in charge of/to blame if things go wrong. However, we had an amazing group of participants this past weekend and I was blessed to be able to help them through their grieving process. It has made an amazing difference in my life - the most difficult time in my life.
I had an opportunity to speak with one of the priests on Saturday night and he told me to make time to thank God for all of my blessings.
I am very thankful for my wonderful children, family and friends and was blessed with wonderful, hardworking, loving parents, whom I miss very much.
God has a plan for me and I have to be patient.
Love to all!
I am so blessed to be able to be a part of this ministry, even if it is an exhausting 48 hour weekend. It is a very structured weekend, and as weekend coordinator I am in charge of/to blame if things go wrong. However, we had an amazing group of participants this past weekend and I was blessed to be able to help them through their grieving process. It has made an amazing difference in my life - the most difficult time in my life.
I had an opportunity to speak with one of the priests on Saturday night and he told me to make time to thank God for all of my blessings.
I am very thankful for my wonderful children, family and friends and was blessed with wonderful, hardworking, loving parents, whom I miss very much.
God has a plan for me and I have to be patient.
Love to all!
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Volunteering
Back in high school I volunteered in church and at the hospital. Ok, so my mom may have "volunteered/voluntold" me for church, but I really did enjoy it. I have always been one to try to help whenever possible. However, my ex wasn't.
After my separation I went on a retreat and felt the calling to begin volunteering again. That was before a went on my first Beginning Experience weekend.
That weekend was amazing!!! The last day I felt the call to be part of that team and help others as much as they had helped me. Through Beginning Experience I have made the most amazing friends that have been there for me at the most difficult time in my life. When I lost my husband, I lost his whole family who were just like my family so that was another part of me that was grieving. I really can't blame them though, because they were only getting a "one sided exaggerated" story. God knows the truth and that is all that really matters.
I volunteered to teach CCD this year and have 5th and 6th graders (4 students total). When I told people that is the age group I had they said it would be hard. Well, last night was our third night and I must tell you, it is going very well. I have an amazing group of kids who ask so many questions and participate so well. I think I am learning as much as them!
This weekend is our Beginning Experience weekend. Please pray that we have a successful weekend and those that are grieving the loss of a spouse, either by death or divorce, find the healing they so desperately need.
Hugs to all!
After my separation I went on a retreat and felt the calling to begin volunteering again. That was before a went on my first Beginning Experience weekend.
That weekend was amazing!!! The last day I felt the call to be part of that team and help others as much as they had helped me. Through Beginning Experience I have made the most amazing friends that have been there for me at the most difficult time in my life. When I lost my husband, I lost his whole family who were just like my family so that was another part of me that was grieving. I really can't blame them though, because they were only getting a "one sided exaggerated" story. God knows the truth and that is all that really matters.
I volunteered to teach CCD this year and have 5th and 6th graders (4 students total). When I told people that is the age group I had they said it would be hard. Well, last night was our third night and I must tell you, it is going very well. I have an amazing group of kids who ask so many questions and participate so well. I think I am learning as much as them!
This weekend is our Beginning Experience weekend. Please pray that we have a successful weekend and those that are grieving the loss of a spouse, either by death or divorce, find the healing they so desperately need.
Hugs to all!
Monday, October 3, 2011
Girls Weekend
One of my dearest friends moved to the Houston area about 5 years ago, after Hurricane Katrina. I finally drove to visit her this weekend, which was waaaaaayyyyy overdue! We had such a good time catching up, relaxing, etc.
Friday night we went to eat at the Woodlands. What a beautiful area. I wish we had more time to "window shop" and see the sights. From there we went to an "ice house/night club" where we felt very old! But we had a good time. We left there and went to a country bar "Stetsons".
Saturday we woke up, did some cardio, went to Old Town Spring, which I loved! It had alot of cute shops and we stopped to listen to a guy playing the guitar and singing on the porch! Very relaxing! Then we drove to Kemah and walked along the boardwalk. The kids would love it there and I plan on taking them next summer.
Sunday we went for a bike ride, did some craft shopping and then watched the Saints beat the Jaguars.....WHO DAT!
I must say, I should have visited her a lot sooner and can't wait to go again. It was just like old times (minus the staying out until 4 a.m.). Thank you Terra for such a wonderful visit! I love you! Can't wait to visit again.
Happy Monday Everyone!
Friday night we went to eat at the Woodlands. What a beautiful area. I wish we had more time to "window shop" and see the sights. From there we went to an "ice house/night club" where we felt very old! But we had a good time. We left there and went to a country bar "Stetsons".
Saturday we woke up, did some cardio, went to Old Town Spring, which I loved! It had alot of cute shops and we stopped to listen to a guy playing the guitar and singing on the porch! Very relaxing! Then we drove to Kemah and walked along the boardwalk. The kids would love it there and I plan on taking them next summer.
Sunday we went for a bike ride, did some craft shopping and then watched the Saints beat the Jaguars.....WHO DAT!
I must say, I should have visited her a lot sooner and can't wait to go again. It was just like old times (minus the staying out until 4 a.m.). Thank you Terra for such a wonderful visit! I love you! Can't wait to visit again.
Happy Monday Everyone!
Monday, September 26, 2011
Uneventful Weekend
I would like to say I had the best weekend ever, but it was pretty uneventful. Cole when fishing with Daddy on Saturday (BTW - he's already starting with fish stories...he caught 27, Daddy caught 10, Daddy says Cole caught 10) so Hannah and I went to the laundramat...how exciting. Then we just hung around the house the rest of the day. Yesterday she started on this screaming at me kick. We were supposed to go to the St. Rosalie fair to see my friend Beth, but I warned her that if she screamed at me one more time, we weren't going...well, I guess she didn't believe me, because she kept it up. Then she threw a temper tantrum when I said we weren't going. I hated to see her cry but if I give in, she will never listen.
She cried when I brought her to school again today (every time she woke up during the night, which she usually doesn't do, she said "I don't want to go to school tomorrow.").
I thought it was the "terrible two's"...She is almost 6.
Well, have a great Monday night everyone...gotta do my lesson for CCD tomorrow and my favorite show is on!!!! I guess I don't have to mention the name....LOL.
She cried when I brought her to school again today (every time she woke up during the night, which she usually doesn't do, she said "I don't want to go to school tomorrow.").
I thought it was the "terrible two's"...She is almost 6.
Well, have a great Monday night everyone...gotta do my lesson for CCD tomorrow and my favorite show is on!!!! I guess I don't have to mention the name....LOL.
Friday, September 23, 2011
Update on My Bucket List
My Bucket List -- UPDATE 9/23/11
I created this bucket list last June after returning from a retreat.
Things I want to do and places I want to see/go (in no particular order)
1. Disney World
2. Las Vegas
3. New York City
4. Hollywood
5. Rocky Mountains
6. Medjugorje
7. Greece
8. Italy (Rome)
9. Run a marathon
10. Go white water rafting
11. Go horseback riding
12. Go on a zip line
13. Go on a hot air balloon ride
14. Overcome my fear of snakes
15. Get a complete makeover
16. Learn to play guitar and/or violin
17. Learn to salsa dance
18. Take an RV trip on Route 66
19. Go swimming with dolphins
20. Learn to knit21. Visit a waterfall
22. Go hiking in the Smoky Mountains
23. Go on a road trip to see fall foliage (preferably in the beautiful state of Maine)
24. Learn a foreign language
25. Re-learn the piano
26. Run through a meadow of wildflowers
27. Go snorkeling/scuba diving
28. Go on a romantic picnic
29. Fly in a helicopter
30. Go on a cruise
31. Visit Hawaii
32. Learn sign language
33. Go to Ireland
34. Visit Napa Valley/San Francisco
35. Go on a scenic bike ride
36. Visit Coney Island
37. Visit Yellowstone National Park
38. Visit the Grand Canyon
39. Buy a home
40.Start a craft business41. Run the Crescent City Classic
42. Achieve ideal weight
43. Take ballroom dance lessons
44. Go on a scenic train ride
45. Serve a meal to the poor/needy
46. Sleep under the stars
47. Rent a convertible for a weekend
48. Plant a vegetable garden
49. Create a family tree
50. Sew a complete outfit (correctly)
51. Send a message in a bottle
52. Plant a tree
53. Shower in a waterfall
54. Write down my goals and work toward achieving them.
55. Visit with the elderly
56. Give Christmas gifts to the poor57. Fly first class
58. Go whale watching
59. Be financially independent
60. Go to a concert in the park
61. Give a heartfelt surprise to someone – special or a stranger
62. Make a difference in someone’s life
63. Perform a kind deed for 5 strangers
64. Write a book/memoir
65. Experience a sunrise with someone special
66. Experience a sunset with someone special
67. Go stargazing
68. Go birdwatching
69. Rescue a dog from a shelter
70. Write a letter to three of my closest friends
71. Bake a cake for someone special
72. Have a meditation/peaceful weekend all to myself.
73. Help someone in need
74. Go sailing
75. Make a recipe book
76. Keep the house clean for a month
77. Put myself first
78. Feel special to someone
79. Accept that I deserve the best
80. Dress up in a great costume
81. Take classes regularly to learn something new
82. Learn wine appreciation
83. Visit a museum of art
84. Visit plantations
85. Ride a streetcar
86. Go on a river cruise
87. Get closure on all hurt, grieving, unhappiness
88. Start a monthly social gathering
89. Be a mentor to someone
90. Get naval pierced
91. Get a tattoo
92. Take up a sport
93. Find true love
94. Become better organized
95. Visit historic churches
96. Go to the beach
97. Sign up to be a bone marrow donor98. Volunteer at church
99. Spend a day doing whatever the kids want
100. Have a spa day
Things I want to do and places I want to see/go (in no particular order)
1. Disney World
2. Las Vegas
3. New York City
4. Hollywood
5. Rocky Mountains
6. Medjugorje
7. Greece
8. Italy (Rome)
9. Run a marathon
10. Go white water rafting
11. Go horseback riding
12. Go on a zip line
13. Go on a hot air balloon ride
14. Overcome my fear of snakes
15. Get a complete makeover
16. Learn to play guitar and/or violin
17. Learn to salsa dance
18. Take an RV trip on Route 66
19. Go swimming with dolphins
20. Learn to knit21. Visit a waterfall
22. Go hiking in the Smoky Mountains
23. Go on a road trip to see fall foliage (preferably in the beautiful state of Maine)
24. Learn a foreign language
25. Re-learn the piano
26. Run through a meadow of wildflowers
27. Go snorkeling/scuba diving
28. Go on a romantic picnic
29. Fly in a helicopter
30. Go on a cruise
31. Visit Hawaii
32. Learn sign language
33. Go to Ireland
34. Visit Napa Valley/San Francisco
35. Go on a scenic bike ride
36. Visit Coney Island
37. Visit Yellowstone National Park
38. Visit the Grand Canyon
39. Buy a home
40.Start a craft business41. Run the Crescent City Classic
42. Achieve ideal weight
43. Take ballroom dance lessons
44. Go on a scenic train ride
45. Serve a meal to the poor/needy
46. Sleep under the stars
47. Rent a convertible for a weekend
48. Plant a vegetable garden
49. Create a family tree
50. Sew a complete outfit (correctly)
51. Send a message in a bottle
52. Plant a tree
53. Shower in a waterfall
54. Write down my goals and work toward achieving them.
55. Visit with the elderly
56. Give Christmas gifts to the poor57. Fly first class
58. Go whale watching
59. Be financially independent
60. Go to a concert in the park
61. Give a heartfelt surprise to someone – special or a stranger
62. Make a difference in someone’s life
63. Perform a kind deed for 5 strangers
64. Write a book/memoir
65. Experience a sunrise with someone special
66. Experience a sunset with someone special
67. Go stargazing
68. Go birdwatching
69. Rescue a dog from a shelter
70. Write a letter to three of my closest friends
71. Bake a cake for someone special
72. Have a meditation/peaceful weekend all to myself.
73. Help someone in need
74. Go sailing
75. Make a recipe book
76. Keep the house clean for a month
77. Put myself first
78. Feel special to someone
79. Accept that I deserve the best
80. Dress up in a great costume
81. Take classes regularly to learn something new
82. Learn wine appreciation
83. Visit a museum of art
84. Visit plantations
85. Ride a streetcar
86. Go on a river cruise
87. Get closure on all hurt, grieving, unhappiness
88. Start a monthly social gathering
89. Be a mentor to someone
90. Get naval pierced
91. Get a tattoo
92. Take up a sport
93. Find true love
94. Become better organized
95. Visit historic churches
96. Go to the beach
97. Sign up to be a bone marrow donor98. Volunteer at church
99. Spend a day doing whatever the kids want
100. Have a spa day
First Day of Fall
Happy Fall Everyone!
I am extremely jealous of my sister, Carolyn, right now as she is on her way to Maine to visit our dad's side of the family, my godparents, and family friends. Of course she picks the last weekend in September to go which is typically the peak of fall foliage, but it looks like it is behind this year (http://www.maine.gov/doc/foliage/report/index.shtml). I hope she has a wonderful visit, especially with our awesome grandmother who is 87 (88 in December). I have lost both my parents, both my grandfathers (3 out of 4 to cancer, Poppa Pratt to strokes - although he had pancreatic cancer in 1960 and was sent home to die - lived til 2001!). Both of my grandmothers are still alive (my mother's mother is 94, will be 95 in January). They are both very strong women and both still live alone. I hope and pray I get those genes!!!! I love you both very much.
Have a great Friday!
I am extremely jealous of my sister, Carolyn, right now as she is on her way to Maine to visit our dad's side of the family, my godparents, and family friends. Of course she picks the last weekend in September to go which is typically the peak of fall foliage, but it looks like it is behind this year (http://www.maine.gov/doc/foliage/report/index.shtml). I hope she has a wonderful visit, especially with our awesome grandmother who is 87 (88 in December). I have lost both my parents, both my grandfathers (3 out of 4 to cancer, Poppa Pratt to strokes - although he had pancreatic cancer in 1960 and was sent home to die - lived til 2001!). Both of my grandmothers are still alive (my mother's mother is 94, will be 95 in January). They are both very strong women and both still live alone. I hope and pray I get those genes!!!! I love you both very much.
Have a great Friday!
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Hannah in Kindergarten
Every morning I get Hannah ready for school it is a battle. She doesn't want to go to school and starts crying. Yesterday when I dropped her off in carpool line, she was crying and it just broke my heart. I just wanted to get her back in the car and take her home.
She was supposed to be with Daddy last night but wanted to stay with me so we had a girl's night. I asked her why she cries at school and she says she misses me (awwwww, my poor baby). So I just held her and we watched t.v.
This morning I walked her in to morning meeting.I waited until the teacher came in at the bell and Mrs. Johnson told me that Hannah is having a hard time adjusting and cries over everything. She said Hannah is a perfectionist and cries when she doesn't get something just right (doesn't get that from me!). Mrs. Johnson said she doesn't have to take things so seriously (ok, she may get that from me...LOL) and that she is one of the smartest ones in the class.
On my way out I spoke with her Pre-K teacher from last year (yes, we had this problem for the first half of last year too). Mrs. Heath said she would stop by and talk to Hannah.
I am helping a friend out with her church fair this weekend, but I am going to try to fit a little more girl time in with Hannah. As I posted earlier, after watching Courageous I want to make sure I am doing enough as a mother.
Have a great Thursday.
She was supposed to be with Daddy last night but wanted to stay with me so we had a girl's night. I asked her why she cries at school and she says she misses me (awwwww, my poor baby). So I just held her and we watched t.v.
This morning I walked her in to morning meeting.I waited until the teacher came in at the bell and Mrs. Johnson told me that Hannah is having a hard time adjusting and cries over everything. She said Hannah is a perfectionist and cries when she doesn't get something just right (doesn't get that from me!). Mrs. Johnson said she doesn't have to take things so seriously (ok, she may get that from me...LOL) and that she is one of the smartest ones in the class.
On my way out I spoke with her Pre-K teacher from last year (yes, we had this problem for the first half of last year too). Mrs. Heath said she would stop by and talk to Hannah.
I am helping a friend out with her church fair this weekend, but I am going to try to fit a little more girl time in with Hannah. As I posted earlier, after watching Courageous I want to make sure I am doing enough as a mother.
Have a great Thursday.
Friday, September 16, 2011
Courageous
I went to Lifesong's screening of Courageous last night at Elmwood Palace. AMAZING MOVIE!!! I can't wait to see it again!
I know the movie is geared towards dads, but I highly recommend it to all parents. As a mother it got me to thinking am I doing enough for my kids. In today's society most families, whether parents are married or divorced, both parents are forced to work. Fortunately I have a wonderful boss that is family oriented, but that was not always the case. The office manager of a former employer was very materialistic and not family oriented.....she didn't have her own children and always complained about her stepchildren. It was a very stressful job and the stress carried over to home. The best move I made was when I quit there.
After seeing the movie last night, I have been doing alot of thinking and soul searching to make sure I do the best for my kids. I made mistakes with my older children, which I regret, but I want to learn from those mistakes so I can do my best for Cole and Hannah.
Have a great Friday everyone!!!
I know the movie is geared towards dads, but I highly recommend it to all parents. As a mother it got me to thinking am I doing enough for my kids. In today's society most families, whether parents are married or divorced, both parents are forced to work. Fortunately I have a wonderful boss that is family oriented, but that was not always the case. The office manager of a former employer was very materialistic and not family oriented.....she didn't have her own children and always complained about her stepchildren. It was a very stressful job and the stress carried over to home. The best move I made was when I quit there.
After seeing the movie last night, I have been doing alot of thinking and soul searching to make sure I do the best for my kids. I made mistakes with my older children, which I regret, but I want to learn from those mistakes so I can do my best for Cole and Hannah.
Have a great Friday everyone!!!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Getting in Shape
Well, I unpacked my scale last night.....want to pack it away again! Wasn't too happy with myself but it got me motivated...immediately! I weighed in, changed clothes then headed to Lafreniere Park. I did 2 miles in 35 minutes, walked mostly, jogged a little....not too bad for not having exercised in months!!! From there I hit the grocery store where I bought carrots, celery, cucumbers, tomatoes and whole wheat sandwich rounds....the diet begins (again). I feel pretty good this morning, just a little sore in my low back. My first goal/reward is when I hit a certain weight (sorry, no numbers right now...LOL), I am going to invest in some good running shoes. I am tracking my food on www.sparkpeople.com.
A dear friend won tickets to the screening of "Courageous" tonight so I am praying my willpower sticks with me, but I have already counted the popcorn at the theatre (no extra butter for me) for today so I won't go overboard for the rest of the day.
Unfortunately, because of the movie I won't be able to go walking tonight but have my pilates DVD already to go when I get home.
Have a great day everyone!
Hugs!!!!
A dear friend won tickets to the screening of "Courageous" tonight so I am praying my willpower sticks with me, but I have already counted the popcorn at the theatre (no extra butter for me) for today so I won't go overboard for the rest of the day.
Unfortunately, because of the movie I won't be able to go walking tonight but have my pilates DVD already to go when I get home.
Have a great day everyone!
Hugs!!!!
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Happiness
As many of you know, I am on team for Beginning Experience New Orleans. For those of you who don't know what this is, it is a peer based Christian ministry for people grieving the loss of a spouse, either by death or divorce. I attended a weekend in October, 2010 and felt so much better after the weekend that I wanted to join to help others. I met so many wonderful people through this ministry it is amazing to think of all the good that has come out of my divorce.
This past weekend we were doing training, which we do for each of the weekends we hold (February, June and October). I was to write about something that was bothering me, but I didn't have anything! I can say that I am truly happy with the status of my life. I have my health, great kids, a wonderful boss, wonderful family. I can say I am truly happy!
This past weekend we were doing training, which we do for each of the weekends we hold (February, June and October). I was to write about something that was bothering me, but I didn't have anything! I can say that I am truly happy with the status of my life. I have my health, great kids, a wonderful boss, wonderful family. I can say I am truly happy!
Friday, September 9, 2011
Hugs!!!
This was my Message from God on Facebook today:
... that this very message is a little hug. Hugs tell us many things; that we are loved, that we are important, that we are valued. This message is a little hug from God telling you all those things. Enjoy it, be blessed by it and try to figure out a way to hug God back.
I love hugs!!! When I was married I would give my husband hugs and he would semi hug back, more of a loose hug with a slight pat on the back like you do when you hug a semi-acquaintance, but not your spouse.
God works wonders. I won't go into the sordid details of how we separated. I am over that and moving on. I will tell you, though, that I was devastated. It was the worst year of my life and I started saying the Rosary and returned to Mass. I wanted to get away so I looked for a retreat and found one called "Healing the Hurts of the Heart" at Rosaryville, outside of Ponchatoula. It was an amazing weekend and I could feel God's love in my heart. It was a Catholic Charasmatic Retreat. I had heard of "Charasmatic" before but didn't know what it was. I left that retreat wanting more so I started attended the weekly Charasmatic Conference Renewal of New Orleans (CCRNO) meetings on Wednesday nights at St. Benilde. The people were so welcoming and loving. I spoke with someone there who I had seen on my retreat and she invited me to join a women's prayer group, Women Empowered by the Word of God. I was very nervous going to my first meeting but the women all welcomed me with open arms and gave me hugs.
I had also seen the advertisement for Beginning Experience in the CCRNO song book. For those of you who don't know what Beginning Experience is, it is a peer based ministry for helping individuals dealing with the loss of a spouse through separation, death or divorce. I had seen in the church bulletin while I was married but never thought I would be divorced again.
I attended my first weekend in October, 2010 and it help me deal with my own deep emotions - all of them. All of the people there, team members and first timers, knew what I was going through and didn't judge. At the weekend everyone becomes friends and hugs each other! I finally felt a "true hug" for the first time in years.
I left that weekend wanting to help others so I joined team, which I will write about at a later date. I will say this, that out of my divorce, I have met the most amazing people and have so many new friends now, because God led me to them. God has a plan!
Thursday, September 8, 2011
GAME DAY!!!
Well, it is finally here!!! The NFL season opener....the Saints versus the Packers!!!! It really makes me miss my mom and dad even more. Although they relocated to Wisconsin, the Saints came first for them...did I tell you what smart people they were??? LOL
I called my mom's friend, Bonnie, in Wisconsin this morning with a WHO DAT!!!! She was so happy for my call and we had a nice chat. She had breast cancer several years ago and is undergoing chemotherapy again. Please pray for her!!!! She is one of the sweetest people I have ever met. She drove Mom to all of her chemo treatments and was like a sister to her. I love that woman!!!! Her only downfall is she is rooting for the Packers tonight. LOL.
It is going to be hard to get through today with the anticipation of tonight's game, but I will try to manage.
When the ex and I were still together, we would take turns with four couples and their children hosting game days at our homes. I really miss those times, but tonight I will be watching the game with new friends from BE who have become like sisters to me. I am sure we will have a lot of fun!
HAVE A GREAT WHO DAT DAY EVERYONE!!!
I called my mom's friend, Bonnie, in Wisconsin this morning with a WHO DAT!!!! She was so happy for my call and we had a nice chat. She had breast cancer several years ago and is undergoing chemotherapy again. Please pray for her!!!! She is one of the sweetest people I have ever met. She drove Mom to all of her chemo treatments and was like a sister to her. I love that woman!!!! Her only downfall is she is rooting for the Packers tonight. LOL.
It is going to be hard to get through today with the anticipation of tonight's game, but I will try to manage.
When the ex and I were still together, we would take turns with four couples and their children hosting game days at our homes. I really miss those times, but tonight I will be watching the game with new friends from BE who have become like sisters to me. I am sure we will have a lot of fun!
HAVE A GREAT WHO DAT DAY EVERYONE!!!
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Is it really fall????
Woke up to sunny skies and cooler weather. I know it is just a tease and I am sure the heat and humidity will be back before we know it, but I love fall! That is one thing I miss about Louisiana....no seasons (unless you count summer, summer, winter and summer as four seasons). I love when the leaves change colors and the air turns brisk!
The house we lived in in Maine was in the country and out the kitchen window you could see the mountains. My mom would spend hours washing dishes just staring out the window when the leaves were changing. We would also go apple picking. I found out during the year I took care of my dad that he and my mom did that to earn Christmas money and depending upon how good the crops were was how good the Christmas was. My two brothers, two sisters and I just loved going to the apple orchard and picking up the apples that had already fallen off the trees! We would also help the neighbor hay his fields for the winter (which for us consisted of riding on the back of the truck and then playing in the barn while they stacked the hay). Those were good times. We didn't have cable and were outside from sun up until sun down and were very happy!
My ex often criticized me for not going to the movies enough as a child (I remember seeing the Star Wars movies, E.T. and Sasquatch.....that's it), but I had a happy childhood and my mom stayed home with us kids, sewed our clothes and canned vegetables....we didn't need movies. We had the great outdoors!
My parents were wonderful parents and I miss them dearly!
The house we lived in in Maine was in the country and out the kitchen window you could see the mountains. My mom would spend hours washing dishes just staring out the window when the leaves were changing. We would also go apple picking. I found out during the year I took care of my dad that he and my mom did that to earn Christmas money and depending upon how good the crops were was how good the Christmas was. My two brothers, two sisters and I just loved going to the apple orchard and picking up the apples that had already fallen off the trees! We would also help the neighbor hay his fields for the winter (which for us consisted of riding on the back of the truck and then playing in the barn while they stacked the hay). Those were good times. We didn't have cable and were outside from sun up until sun down and were very happy!
My ex often criticized me for not going to the movies enough as a child (I remember seeing the Star Wars movies, E.T. and Sasquatch.....that's it), but I had a happy childhood and my mom stayed home with us kids, sewed our clothes and canned vegetables....we didn't need movies. We had the great outdoors!
My parents were wonderful parents and I miss them dearly!
Thursday, September 1, 2011
WHO DAT and My 2 year anniversary!!!
My boss gave me a ticket to the Saints game tonight! Can't wait to go! I will be sitting by myself but who cares - it's a Saints game!!!!
He actually had 3 tickets available and offered them to one of the other attorneys in the office who only needed 2 so I am using the 3rd, but it is in a different section.
I have the world's best boss!!!! I worked for him in the 90's for 4 1/2 years at a different firm. When my ex told me I had to go back to work, even though I was taking care of my dad full time, I called him for a reference and he asked me if I could do part-time. God has a way for watching out for me because that was exactly what I needed! I started 2 years ago today!! I was able to work 3 days a week and still take Dad to his doctor's appointments the other 2 days. When Dad fell and broke his ribs, he told me to do what I needed to do and just to let him know when I could work.
When, shortly after my Dad died, I was dealing with my separation and divorce he was always supportive, as well as when Hannah was in the hospital twice this past year with asthma. Even though I was only part time, he paid me for my regular days. On top of that, he pays my health insurance and matches my retirement contribution. And I am only part-time!
He has told me by the end of the year, if not sooner, I will be full time. So even though money is tight right now, I couldn't imagine working for anyone else.
He actually had 3 tickets available and offered them to one of the other attorneys in the office who only needed 2 so I am using the 3rd, but it is in a different section.
I have the world's best boss!!!! I worked for him in the 90's for 4 1/2 years at a different firm. When my ex told me I had to go back to work, even though I was taking care of my dad full time, I called him for a reference and he asked me if I could do part-time. God has a way for watching out for me because that was exactly what I needed! I started 2 years ago today!! I was able to work 3 days a week and still take Dad to his doctor's appointments the other 2 days. When Dad fell and broke his ribs, he told me to do what I needed to do and just to let him know when I could work.
When, shortly after my Dad died, I was dealing with my separation and divorce he was always supportive, as well as when Hannah was in the hospital twice this past year with asthma. Even though I was only part time, he paid me for my regular days. On top of that, he pays my health insurance and matches my retirement contribution. And I am only part-time!
He has told me by the end of the year, if not sooner, I will be full time. So even though money is tight right now, I couldn't imagine working for anyone else.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Hump Day!
Is it just me, or is the year flying by, yet the weeks never seem to end! It is such a strange feeling.
I took Hannah for her check up this morning. Her lungs sound fine, which I am thrilled about considering all the smoke that has been in the air for the past few days. We will start her on Claritin for allergies and around Halloween she will start on her steroid inhaler once a day, unless something starts going around school before then. She is in the 90th percentile and is the height and weight of the average 7 year old (at age 5 3/4). Another 1/2 inch and she can go on most rides at Disney World. Not that we are going any time soon, but hopefully in another year or so.
It's picture day at school so she was happy she didn't have to wear a ponytail for once!
Well, hope everyone has a great day! Hugs!
I took Hannah for her check up this morning. Her lungs sound fine, which I am thrilled about considering all the smoke that has been in the air for the past few days. We will start her on Claritin for allergies and around Halloween she will start on her steroid inhaler once a day, unless something starts going around school before then. She is in the 90th percentile and is the height and weight of the average 7 year old (at age 5 3/4). Another 1/2 inch and she can go on most rides at Disney World. Not that we are going any time soon, but hopefully in another year or so.
It's picture day at school so she was happy she didn't have to wear a ponytail for once!
Well, hope everyone has a great day! Hugs!
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
My Bucket List
I created this bucket list last June after returning from a retreat.
Things I want to do and places I want to see/go (in no particular order)
1. Disney World
2. Las Vegas
3. New York City
4. Hollywood
5. Rocky Mountains
6. Medjugorje
7. Greece
8. Italy (Rome)
9. Run a marathon
10. Go white water rafting
11. Go horseback riding
12. Go on a zip line
13. Go on a hot air balloon ride
14. Overcome my fear of snakes
15. Get a complete makeover
16. Learn to play guitar and/or violin
17. Learn to salsa dance
18. Take an RV trip on Route 66
19. Go swimming with dolphins
20. Learn to knit
21. Visit a waterfall
22. Go hiking in the Smoky Mountains
23. Go on a road trip to see fall foliage (preferably in the beautiful state of Maine)
24. Learn a foreign language
25. Re-learn the piano
26. Run through a meadow of wildflowers
27. Go snorkeling/scuba diving
28. Go on a romantic picnic
29. Fly in a helicopter
30. Go on a cruise
31. Visit Hawaii
32. Learn sign language
33. Go to Ireland
34. Visit Napa Valley/San Francisco
35. Go on a scenic bike ride
36. Visit Coney Island
37. Visit Yellowstone National Park
38. Visit the Grand Canyon
39. Buy a home
40.Start a craft business
41. Run the Crescent City Classic
42. Achieve ideal weight
43. Take ballroom dance lessons
44. Go on a scenic train ride
45. Serve a meal to the poor/needy
46. Sleep under the stars
47. Rent a convertible for a weekend
48. Plant a vegetable garden
49. Create a family tree
50. Sew a complete outfit (correctly)
51. Send a message in a bottle
52. Plant a tree
53. Shower in a waterfall
54. Write down my goals and work toward achieving them.
55. Visit with the elderly
56. Give Christmas gifts to the poor
57. Fly first class
58. Go whale watching
59. Be financially independent
60. Go to a concert in the park
61. Give a heartfelt surprise to someone – special or a stranger
62. Make a difference in someone’s life
63. Perform a kind deed for 5 strangers
64. Write a book/memoir
65. Experience a sunrise with someone special
66. Experience a sunset with someone special
67. Go stargazing
68. Go birdwatching
69. Rescue a dog from a shelter
70. Write a letter to three of my closest friends
71. Bake a cake for someone special
72. Have a meditation/peaceful weekend all to myself.
73. Help someone in need
74. Go sailing
75. Make a recipe book
76. Keep the house clean for a month
77. Put myself first
78. Feel special to someone
79. Accept that I deserve the best
80. Dress up in a great costume
81. Take classes regularly to learn something new
82. Learn wine appreciation
83. Visit a museum of art
84. Visit plantations
85. Ride a streetcar
86. Go on a river cruise
87. Get closure on all hurt, grieving, unhappiness
88. Start a monthly social gathering
89. Be a mentor to someone
90. Get naval pierced
91. Get a tattoo
92. Take up a sport
93. Find true love
94. Become better organized
95. Visit historic churches
96. Go to the beach
97. Sign up to be a bone marrow donor
98. Volunteer at church
99. Spend a day doing whatever the kids want
100. Have a spa day
Things I want to do and places I want to see/go (in no particular order)
1. Disney World
2. Las Vegas
3. New York City
4. Hollywood
5. Rocky Mountains
6. Medjugorje
7. Greece
8. Italy (Rome)
9. Run a marathon
10. Go white water rafting
11. Go horseback riding
12. Go on a zip line
13. Go on a hot air balloon ride
14. Overcome my fear of snakes
15. Get a complete makeover
16. Learn to play guitar and/or violin
17. Learn to salsa dance
18. Take an RV trip on Route 66
19. Go swimming with dolphins
20. Learn to knit
21. Visit a waterfall
22. Go hiking in the Smoky Mountains
23. Go on a road trip to see fall foliage (preferably in the beautiful state of Maine)
24. Learn a foreign language
25. Re-learn the piano
26. Run through a meadow of wildflowers
27. Go snorkeling/scuba diving
28. Go on a romantic picnic
29. Fly in a helicopter
30. Go on a cruise
31. Visit Hawaii
32. Learn sign language
33. Go to Ireland
34. Visit Napa Valley/San Francisco
35. Go on a scenic bike ride
36. Visit Coney Island
37. Visit Yellowstone National Park
38. Visit the Grand Canyon
39. Buy a home
40.Start a craft business
41. Run the Crescent City Classic
42. Achieve ideal weight
43. Take ballroom dance lessons
44. Go on a scenic train ride
45. Serve a meal to the poor/needy
46. Sleep under the stars
47. Rent a convertible for a weekend
48. Plant a vegetable garden
49. Create a family tree
50. Sew a complete outfit (correctly)
51. Send a message in a bottle
52. Plant a tree
53. Shower in a waterfall
54. Write down my goals and work toward achieving them.
55. Visit with the elderly
56. Give Christmas gifts to the poor
57. Fly first class
58. Go whale watching
59. Be financially independent
60. Go to a concert in the park
61. Give a heartfelt surprise to someone – special or a stranger
62. Make a difference in someone’s life
63. Perform a kind deed for 5 strangers
64. Write a book/memoir
65. Experience a sunrise with someone special
66. Experience a sunset with someone special
67. Go stargazing
68. Go birdwatching
69. Rescue a dog from a shelter
70. Write a letter to three of my closest friends
71. Bake a cake for someone special
72. Have a meditation/peaceful weekend all to myself.
73. Help someone in need
74. Go sailing
75. Make a recipe book
76. Keep the house clean for a month
77. Put myself first
78. Feel special to someone
79. Accept that I deserve the best
80. Dress up in a great costume
81. Take classes regularly to learn something new
82. Learn wine appreciation
83. Visit a museum of art
84. Visit plantations
85. Ride a streetcar
86. Go on a river cruise
87. Get closure on all hurt, grieving, unhappiness
88. Start a monthly social gathering
89. Be a mentor to someone
90. Get naval pierced
91. Get a tattoo
92. Take up a sport
93. Find true love
94. Become better organized
95. Visit historic churches
96. Go to the beach
97. Sign up to be a bone marrow donor
98. Volunteer at church
99. Spend a day doing whatever the kids want
100. Have a spa day
Welcome to by blog!
I want to thank you for taking the time to read my new blog!
I am a 42 year old, twice divorced mother of four! I never thought I would be divorced, let alone twice, but believe God has a plan for me and my faith has gotten me through the most difficult time in my life.
Two weeks after my dad's funeral, my husband told me he wanted a divorce! I thought it was just part of an argument, and left it at that. Then I found out about "HER". The 20 year old (at the time) girlfriend he had. Not only that, he had my children (ages 4 and 5) lie to me about her, after they would go to the park, she would go with him to pick up my son from school.
It has taken me a long time to get over the grief and hurt, and there are still moments that I think "if only we could have.....". Then I overheard a conversation with his dad. My daughter had called me to talk to me (she is 5) about open house at school and I asked to talk to him to work out the details. He yelled at her for calling me! Then I called him back and told him not to ever yell at her for calling me again (in a very loud voice....LOL). I tried to call Hannah back on her cell (I know a 5 year old with a cell phone....but I got it for both of them so they could call me whenever they want and my ex can call them without me having to talk to him) and at the same time he called me on the main line. After I hung up I went back to the line on hold to hang it up and overheard him lying to his dad about what I said and what he really thought of me. It was a wake up call as to the lies he has been telling about me throughout the divorce process and made me realize that I can't change him....I can only change me!
A week later our divorce was final and here I am, a 42 year old, twice divorced mother of four (ages 5, 6, 21 and 23) trying to start my life over. Although I have been working on myself for the past year and a half and have made great strides, I feel that the finalization of the divorce was the opening of the door for the "new me".
I am a 42 year old, twice divorced mother of four! I never thought I would be divorced, let alone twice, but believe God has a plan for me and my faith has gotten me through the most difficult time in my life.
Two weeks after my dad's funeral, my husband told me he wanted a divorce! I thought it was just part of an argument, and left it at that. Then I found out about "HER". The 20 year old (at the time) girlfriend he had. Not only that, he had my children (ages 4 and 5) lie to me about her, after they would go to the park, she would go with him to pick up my son from school.
It has taken me a long time to get over the grief and hurt, and there are still moments that I think "if only we could have.....". Then I overheard a conversation with his dad. My daughter had called me to talk to me (she is 5) about open house at school and I asked to talk to him to work out the details. He yelled at her for calling me! Then I called him back and told him not to ever yell at her for calling me again (in a very loud voice....LOL). I tried to call Hannah back on her cell (I know a 5 year old with a cell phone....but I got it for both of them so they could call me whenever they want and my ex can call them without me having to talk to him) and at the same time he called me on the main line. After I hung up I went back to the line on hold to hang it up and overheard him lying to his dad about what I said and what he really thought of me. It was a wake up call as to the lies he has been telling about me throughout the divorce process and made me realize that I can't change him....I can only change me!
A week later our divorce was final and here I am, a 42 year old, twice divorced mother of four (ages 5, 6, 21 and 23) trying to start my life over. Although I have been working on myself for the past year and a half and have made great strides, I feel that the finalization of the divorce was the opening of the door for the "new me".
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